DON'T START A FAMILY YOU KNOW YOU CANNOT CARE FOR

To run from the temptation of zinah by initiating responsibilities that can trigger the temptation of theft? Need we interpret this wrong? I'm all for humble starts but you have got no business starting a family you cannot take care of, Islam or not. The welfare of a wife and potential children cannot, should not be based on your mere belief that things will get better. Sure, things should get better but they don't always do, what's your plan for if they don't? You are blessed big if you have a wife willing to start rough with you, to take advantage of her is to be the very thing you need not be, irresponsible, which will sound like an insult till you ask yourself what word should represent one not being responsible for the welfare of the family he so much hustled to create. The rough I speak of is not one I am not familiar with. Trust me, the level of perseverance needed to push through it is out of this world. One which should convince you to keep it in your pants and concentrate your libido-channelled energy towards making a living. It is not enough to quote scriptures in standalone formats, there is also the application of it. Your realities are unique hence beyond just asking about the acceptable limits of the deen, you need to also ask about how it applies to you. You cannot just bite hadith lines without the wisdom of application, one which comes from only The Most High.